Guidelines - Part 4
The following guidelines should be used to direct the disciplinary relationship between the person adminstering the discipline and the person receiving the discipline. I have collected these suggestions from sources such as the Spencer Plan (Dorothy Spencer) and other Domestic Discipline sites.
- If discipline is requested, it must be given. This is one of the most valuable features of any Domestic Discipline plan. The person receiving the spanking should be able to ask for a spanking when one is needed.
- The spanking can be administered using various implements. This is especially important when the female in the relationship is administering the spanking. Use of an implement allows her to concentrate on the effectiveness of the punishment.
- The person receiving the spanking should not have to be restrained; if that person is unable to remain in position while being punished, the person giving the spanking should use whatever means appropriate to restrain the partner.
- All spankings should be administered on the bare bottom. This allows for constant inspection of the skin and increased effectiveness. Spanking on a clothed bottom can lead to too severe a spanking or one that is not severe enough.
- When the spanking is concluded, the person giving the spanking can choose to comfort the one receiving. Gratitude is expected at some point after the spanking has concluded. Where there is no expression of gratitude, there shall be additional punishment.
posted by Mistress Nikki | 1:45 AM
3 Comments:
Actually this is the most intelligent presentation on
the subject of how DD should
be done and the benefits to
both parties. I have asked my
wife to read your material to
improve upon our relationship
which is good now, but could be
even better. Good job !
This lifestyle is something that has been handed down to the women in my family for generations. We have an exceptionally happy, well-adjusted, and successful extended family.
Yes, this is still the "big family secret." But within the family it is completely normal for all of us.
Your comment on the fact that sometime restraints are needed is very correct. Beleive me, we are in no way kinky, or S&M oriented. But sometimes restraint is the only way.
Anyway, I have decided to communicate bit with some people on the Web, just to see if there is anything especially new I should know about.
Gina
I enjoyed reading your spanking essay, I think you covered everything but maintenance spanking. I will undoubtedly read it over and over again.
Ron
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