Disciplinarian

The Disciplinarian Blog was created as a spanking journal. It is about adjusting the attitudes and behaviors of my Significant Other through firm consequences. If this topic offends you in any way, do not read any further. All Domestic Discipline occurs with a written contract between my SO and myself.

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Thursday, February 09, 2006

Baring His Bottom

Before I begin the actual spanking, I require D. to bare his bottom. I am more of a hands-on disciplinarian, so I often pull his pants and underwear off myself. If you do want him to do the work, you'll need to give him clear instructions. Say something like "I want you to pull your pants down and bend over the bed!" Don't forget to use your Command Tone as you give him clear instructions.

If your man does not move fast enough, you might want to increase the severity of the spanking or possibly add an implement. If he is being a real BOY about his discipline, remind him that you love him (and that you must spank him for his behavior), but you will not tolerate stall tactics.

11 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

okay I am swooning now... head spinning. Can you teach my wife to do this? I need to show her this blog,.

love it,
mr

2:21 PM  
Anonymous Jon said...

My wife appreciated your blog, especially your introductory messages as to why you use spanking in your relationship with your SO stated in your september archives. This electronic media, Disciplinarian blog is a nice journal but doesn't invite much feedback from us or method of contacting you. Perhaps you wish neither. If you would allow more sharing of info outside your blog you can email Her at hisdaisygal@yahoo.com or me at emotimatly@yahoo.com. In any event wonderful blog of sharing, keep up the great work of relationship building!

9:31 AM  
Blogger dwcmike said...

Hi Nikki: i have just found your blog, as a number of people had linked to my blog from yours. Thank you for putting a link to my site, I will be setting up a link to yours shortly.
What I have read so far is excellent, so I will enjoying reading all of your blog whenever time permits.
Our thoughts on domestic discipline are very similar, but your way of expressing them are clear, concise, and helpful for readers.
bottoms up
Mike

1:02 PM  
Anonymous bear said...

I have typed more then one response and then erased it. Let me just say 'Great Blog' and keep writing!

7:20 AM  
Anonymous Mike said...

To me, baring my bottom is an act of consent. I'm willingly preparing myself and accepting the punishment that is about to come. All my wife has to say is something like, "drop 'em" and I know what she means. She means, bare, not pants and leave the underwear, and not just tug them down a little. Pull everything down, and do it quick, or else.

Not much gets the butterflies going like baring yourself for your spanking.

Mike

9:51 AM  
Blogger Evan said...

Personally, I find being instructed to strip, a good introduction to being spanked. It makes it clear that I am leaving my dignity and conceit behind before going over her knee.

5:11 PM  
Anonymous WAH!! said...

To me, Ma'am, not having control or even having my hands smacked hard as a warning is very effective. If my Spanker takes down my pants and briefs, particularly just over my bottom, it is very humbling and fear inducing! I no longer feel like a man - but a helpless boy waiting for a real spanking! It makes everything more real! I need a Spanker who is in control of everything!

5:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My wife has a perfect way of poking fun at me during spanking.I have to hold her lady handkerchief between my buttocks and it should not drop during spanking.Normally she gives five chances.After that,you can imagine .That sexy small ladyhandkerchief peeeping out of my butt hole .really these ladies know how stupid aremen

6:04 AM  
Anonymous Mona said...

Dear Nikki, My little boy has no choice in the matter because I know from experience that his humiliation is increased significantly when I lower his pants and "panties".He is a much more docile little boy and quite frankly I love seeing the look on his sad, contrite little face when I stick my fingertips in the waistband of his briefs and slowly start peeling away his last shred of dignity.Regards,Mona

2:32 PM  
Anonymous Donna in Charge said...

Dear Nikki, I agree with Mona's comments, My little naughty one is made to get into his little pink frillies and march to the corner where he sticks his nose firmly into the wall to reflect upon his childish behavior and the impending trip over my knee. Belive me he is a docile little boy as he stands in front of me as I scold him and start tugging his pink panties down.There is no doubt in my mind that me baring his fanny adds to his misery and actually makes administering the spanking easier and quite frankly more enjoyable for me.Always, Donna in charge

10:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Amy in charge...
I found that after I began to administer domestic discipline to my husband our relationship has become more stable.

It took time for both of us to adjust, but once he became use to me making all the decisions and disciplining him things really improved in our relationship.

4:19 PM  

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